How to Know When People are Insecure?

There is a way to know when the people you meet in everyday affairs get insecure. Imagine that if this is known beforehand, one can save a lot of ruffled feathers or petty fights. This is nothing but a reaction from people when met with such a scenario.

This is known by the fact that when these people get insecure, they tend to arrange things in front of them or their vicinity. The reaction is just done in a fashion as to spruce up things in front of them too- like touching them through the whole course of the conversation.

I know a lady who is constantly on her toes or at her wit's end to get it across to people that she is well-to-do. When one of her acquaintances asked her as to what business her husband does, she started giving off this above reaction.

She kept touching her things next to her throughout the conversation as if to prove her worth.

Insecurity lurks deep in people's minds. Even well educated people have this feeling in them. Once this feeling comes up behave wisely. Friendships can blossom by taking note of this reaction and acting accordingly. Start testing this!

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