Adjudicated Parallels

There is a wrong notion among people that every action of anyone is driven by a reason. This mentality is pursued more rigorously and these believers try to make out the former's thoughts behind every move. This thinking keeps them busy nevertheless, but  totally misleading. More so , some reasons are not worth revealing when questioned by people in authority. Imagine the sensational nature of it in the workplaces after revealing. I was privy to one such scenario when confronted with my erstwhile interviewer. He asked me the reason behind not answering his calls to join office. It was an insurance office job and payable with commission. Later he blurted out that everything has a reason. Well, in this case, the reason was feigning ignorance and fearing embarrassment. Again, clearly a strong reason. A sound judgment is demanded to tackle these errors. Wisdom wins.

Every argument --well, almost-- has a counter-argument that can justify the reaction to it. This is true for property usurpers wherein the debauchery done to a known person can be dismissed off as rational. They can label it as things taken from a war after rummaging the city. On a more sober note, these are war spoils. More so, the argument on both sides of the coin --good and evil-- is objective. It is on a more personal note as to which is right. Devout people have the good perspective, while others have the latter. Have your liaisons settled.

There is a kind of wanting in everyday affairs to be cool and composed. When everything around you is seemingly jumbled up and can only be spruced with a wise reaction, there can be pretty good substitutes too. Paltry differences and unaccounted hoaxes set the pace for such misguided mirages. Aridity is a base for such a phenomenon. Passage of time and healthy travails also make up for the spent reason. Tumultuous rides such as these demand strong nerves. A sense of tranquility is needed to soothe the bite of these icicles.

There is an air of self-justification around many godly folks. They think that whenever someone brings about a topic asking for news regarding a place the former recently visited, gossip is bound to come next in the conversation. The interesting part the godly person misses is that news can be related about places and things, while gossip is related to people. This is what people should be aloof about. Gossip undermines people's selves, while news enriches and brings awareness about surroundings. Imagine if you didn't know how people in a locality --you are about to move into-- are. This could be a tragedy and put you in harm's way. It empowers you to behave with the people- as in this case. Everyone should learn to discern between the two and not exaggerate. Focus on the meanings.

It is very profitable to know beforehand if your actions rouse someone to anger. The talks or ongoing negotiations need not meet a dead end. Let me share an incident to get to you the body language of such a  person: I was attending mass and after it ended, moved out of the church. Stepping out, I met a known person who was hearing the service standing outside. I made an innocuous comment that hurt him. This I figured out when he began shaking his legs after my snide remark. Such a reaction is an ominous portent. Pacify the person with your sweet talks if he has a short temper. This person known to me, was. I live far from his place and meet him very rarely. Hence, not applicable. Tread wisely in your context.

There is a kind of uncertainty involving the handling or learning of any new thing. This teething problem need not translate into a bane for novices. All that they need is a mind away from the issue and an 'egg on' attitude to tackle it. It's always mind over​ matter and covers a multitude of issues. Hope helps too. See, I hope that you like this new thing.

It is easy to know when people are justifying themselves after quite a big fight with someone. This could mean that you can be safe from their anger being vented upon yourself whenever a conversation is attempted. I was once watching a very popular show in prime time on television. The son of a famous celebrity known to have a hot temper watched his feet and attempted to play with the floor while standing. This he did when his father revealed that he had a temper and people were aware of it, in his speech. Such a body language can mean that the person who does this, had a fight with the one in the context of the situation. This is a great thing to watch out for in a person. Be wise and adapt to the situation when this is seen in a person whom you plan to talk to or make a deal with.