How to Know When People Get Angry?

It is very profitable to know beforehand if your actions rouse someone to anger. The talks or ongoing negotiations need not meet a dead end.

Let me share an incident to get to you the body language of such a  person:

I was attending mass and after it ended, moved out of the church. Stepping out, I met a known person who was hearing the service standing outside. I made an innocuous comment that hurt him. This I figured out when he began shaking his legs after my snide remark.

Such a reaction is an ominous portent. Pacify the person with your sweet talks if he has a short temper. This person known to me, was. I live far from his place and meet him very rarely. Hence, not applicable.

Tread wisely in your context.

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